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Unlock the Secrets of Intimacy: Our Top Books & Media for Your Making Love Retreat Journey!

As Making Love teachers and parents, we, Jasmin and Max Muzio, have found Diana Richardson’s and other books invaluable for integrating conscious sexuality into daily life.

These practical guides help deepen connection and bring mindfulness to relationships, turning intimacy into a natural, enriching part of everyday routines. We believe they can transform your relationships as they have ours. Here are our top recommendations.

The Book cover "Slow Sex" is an important Book from Diana Richardson
by Diana Richardson

Slow Sex

Diana Richardson’s practice of slow sex offers couples a revolutionary way to enhance intimacy and reach higher states of consciousness. Unlike the fleeting satisfaction of fast, orgasm-focused sex that can become mechanical over time, slow sex turns intimacy into a conscious, meditative experience. By emphasizing eye contact, subtle sensations, and deep breathing, couples can unlock the body’s innate potential for ecstasy and deepen their connection.

This transformative practice increases sensitivity, revitalizes sexual vitality, and nurtures love, making sex a source of healing and spiritual union. Richardson guides couples through step-by-step techniques that prioritize coolness over heat, showing how slow, sustained, and soft penetration can create a shared state of meditation. With this approach, sex remains meaningful and fulfilling, sustaining joy and deep connection.

by Diana Richardson

Tantric Love Letters

Diana Richardson, an acclaimed authority on human sexuality, began a personal enquiry into the union of sex and meditation (the essence of tantra) over twenty five years ago while living in India. Through these innocent steps and motivated by simple curiosity, she gained deep insights into the spiritual and generative implications of sex that lie beyond its reproductive aspect. She stresses that it is the how of sex, and not the what of sex, that determines the difference. With additional information we can begin to honor the innate sexual intelligence that exists in our bodies as a subtle electro-magnetic reality. On this fine and delicate level man and woman function as equal yet opposite forces that are highly complimentary. Embracing this polarity potential can elevate and transform sex into an empowering and spiritual act, an experience that creates and sustains love, peace and harmony. Her simple, down to earth and practical approach as presented in her books has created a wave of positive resonance and response from readers worldwide.
by Diana Richardson

Tantric Love

What happens when suddenly the wind changes and the loving connection between two partners is disrupted for hours or even days? Why is love associated with ups and downs? The answer is simple although not obvious - usually a wave of emotion which has roots in the past floods the atmosphere. The authors show in easy to follow steps how to recognise emotions, to leave them behind, and to create space for the expression of real feelings where love has a chance.
by Marnia Robinson

Cupids poisoned Arrow

Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow by Marnia Robinson challenges conventional views on sex, showing how brain chemistry impacts love and lust. She offers strategies for deeper emotional connections to create more fulfilling, lasting relationships.
by Peter A. Levine

In a Unspoken Voice

Peter A. Levine's In an Unspoken Voice synthesizes his extensive experience in clinical practice, brain research, stress science, and observing animals to explain how trauma affects the body, brain, and psyche. The book presents the view that trauma is an injury resulting from fear, helplessness, and loss, rather than a disorder, and it can be healed by tapping into our natural ability to self-regulate intense emotions and arousal. Through a comprehensive theoretical framework and illustrative case studies, Levine combines insights from biology, neuroscience, and body-oriented psychotherapy to demonstrate that integrating instinct and rationality can lead to a more complete human experience.
by Marshall B. Rosenberg and Deepak Chopra

Nonviolent Communication

Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg and Deepak Chopra explores how to replace harmful communication patterns with compassionate, empathetic dialogue. It teaches how to foster connection through conscious language, collaboration, and understanding. The approach helps increase choice, improve relationships, and promote mutual benefit in everyday interactions. With over 5 million copies sold worldwide, this guide is essential for cultivating nonviolent communication.
The Book "Tantric orgasm for woman" a fundamental work for woman to explore a new sexuality.
by Diana Richardson

Tantric Orgasm for Woman

In Tantric Orgasm for Women, Diana Richardson shows how relaxation and feminine energy unlock deeper orgasms. She offers tantric exercises to balance male and female energies, enhance intimacy, and address common sexual challenges.
The Book "Tantric Sex for Men" from Diana Richardson is a important, basic Work for Men to understand how male sexuality functions.
Diana & Michael Richardson

Tantric Sex for Men

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Tantric Sex for Men by Diana and Michael Richardson challenges the performance-driven mindset of modern male sexuality, shifting focus from goal-oriented sex to a more fulfilling, stress-free experience. In a world where men face constant pressure to perform, this approach invites relaxation and deeper connection. Through over 25 years of tantric practice, the authors reveal how semen retention boosts vitality and extends intimacy, while deep, sustained penetration strengthens relationships. Practical techniques for foreplay, position sequences, and overcoming premature ejaculation guide men to a more mindful, healing, and passionate sexual experience. This book transforms sex into a meditative, rejuvenating celebration that nurtures both partners.
by Osho (Acharya Rajneesh)

From Sex to Super - consciousness

With complete frankness Osho discusses the three stages of sex - physical, psychological and spiritual - and provides guidance on how this raw energy can be transformed into the realization of ultimate consciousness. He explains that when we repress our basic nature, sex takes roots in the unconscious, creating an unnatural obsession. It is this psychic state that has produced much mental sickness and the widespread perversity of society today. "Sex is man's most vibrant energy," Osho says," but it should not be an end unto sex should lead man to his soul."
by Osho (Acharya Rajneesh)

Tantra - The Supreme Understanding

“Tantra is freedom; freedom from all mind-constructs, from all mind-games; freedom from all structures; freedom from the other. Tantra is space to be.” —Osho

The tradition of Tantra or Tantric Buddhism is known to have existed in India as early as the 5th century AD. In this all-time bestseller, using the contemporary idiom and his own unique blend of wisdom and humor, Osho talks about the mystical insights found in the ancient Tantric writings. He also explores many significant Tantric meditation techniques, demonstrating how they are as relevant to the modern-day seeker as they were to those in earlier times.

No matter how complex, obscure, or mystical the subject, Osho always brings his uniquely refreshing perspective—introducing the most difficult concepts to the widest possible audience with irreverent wit and thought-provoking inspiration.

by Osho

The Book of Secrets

The principles and practices of Tantra are revealed by one of the greatest spiritual teachers of the twentieth century in The Book of Secrets: 112 Meditations to Discover the Mystery Within.

In this comprehensive and practical guide, the secrets of the ancient science of Tantra become available to a contemporary audience. Confined to small, hidden mystery schools for centuries, and often misunderstood and misinterpreted today. Tantra is not just a collection of techniques to enhance sexual experience. As Osho shows in these pages, it is a complete science of self-realization, based on the cumulative wisdom of centuries of exploration into the meaning of life and consciousness. Tantra—the very word means “technique”—is a set of powerful, transformative tools that can be used to bring new meaning and joy to every aspect of our daily lives.

Osho challenges readers to examine and break free of the conditioned belief systems and prejudices that limit their capacity to enjoy life in all its richness. He has been described by the Sunday Times of London as one of the “1000 Makers of the 20th Century” and by Sunday Mid-Day (India) as one of the ten people—along with Gandhi, Nehru, and Buddha—who have changed the destiny of India. Since his death in 1990, the influence of his teachings continues to expand, reaching seekers of all ages in virtually every country of the world.

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by Diana & Michael Richardson

Tantric Sex for Lovers

A complete guide to tantric sex in a 3-volume boxed set

• Contains Tantric Orgasm for Women, Tantric Sex for Men, and Slow Sex

• Explores Tantra from the female perspective and the male perspective and looks at how couples can make sex more fulfilling and use their love-making to strengthen their relationship

• Shares foreplay practices, breathing exercises, position sequences, tantric meditations for increased sensitivity, and techniques to awaken the body’s innate mechanism for ecstasy

Renowned tantric sex teachers Diana and Michael Richardson present practices to help couples learn how to keep their sex life sustainable, fulfilling, and enjoyable for decades.

Includes Tantric Orgasm for Women, Tantric Sex for Men, and Slow Sex

In Tantric Orgasm for Women Diana explores Tantra from the female perspective, revealing how relaxation is the key to achieving deep orgasmic states. She looks at how receptive feminine energy influences the male-female exchange and the role of the clitoris, breasts, and vagina in achieving orgasm.

In Tantric Sex for Men, Diana and Michael show men how to move beyond goal-oriented sex and relax into sex as a meditative union. They include foreplay approaches, explore the benefits of deep sustained penetration, and explain how to perform soft penetration and avoid premature ejaculation.

Slow Sex is a step-by-step guide for committed couples to awaken the body’s innate mech-anism for ecstasy and pleasure and help create a deep and restoring love. With illustrations of various positions for eye contact, deep penetration, and soft penetration, Diana shows how the practice of slow sex can also provide a vehicle to achieve higher consciousness.

These three books enable committed couples to develop a personal tantric sex practice, enrich their relationship, and harness the power of sex to access extraordinary realms of sensitivity, sensuality, and higher consciousness.

The Book "The heart of Tantric Sex" is the fundament of the work of Diana & Michael Richardson
by Diana Richardson

The Heart of Tantric Sex

In The Heart of Tantric Sex, Diana Richardson teaches how Tantra’s mindful, slow approach to lovemaking can deepen intimacy and lasting love. She offers practical advice for modern couples, encouraging a shift from goal-driven sex to a connection that nurtures spiritual growth and the sacred in relationships.
Diana Richardson & Wendy Doelemann

Cool Sex

Cool Sex by Diana Richardson offers teens and young adults an alternative view of sex, focusing on relaxation and mindfulness instead of excitement, promoting deeper satisfaction and connection.
by Diana Richardson and Janet McGeever

Tantric Sex & Menopause

This tantric guide by Diana Richardson and Janet McGeever reveals the hidden gifts of menopause, showing how it opens a new phase of creative and spiritual energy. The authors explain how Tantra can help women embrace their body’s changes, let go of performance pressure in sex, and cultivate passion and pleasure. With practical tools, they offer insights on what to expect physically, emotionally, and spiritually during menopause, and how it can lead to deeper intimacy, self-awareness, and enhanced relationships. This book is a guide for women to reconnect with their body’s wisdom and embrace this transformative phase.
by Barry Long

Making Love

Barry Long’s groundbreaking book about the difference between love and sex. What are the real secrets of love-making? What mistakes does everyone make before learning the truth about love? What can men do to avoid sexual failure? What do women need to know before they can discover a real and fulfilling love? These revolutionary tantric teachings have inspired, challenged and profoundly changed the love-lives of many thousands of couples and are surely needed today more than ever.
by Barry Long

Living Love

A book about the purpose of love and how sexuality and relationships are transformed when human love is suffused with the love of God.

With such a powerful sexual attraction between us, how is it that we make each other unhappy? Barry Long explains why sex corrupts love and how we cripple loving relationships.

What's the solution? In characteristically forthright manner, the author proposes a new way of romantic love and shows how it can be brought into our lives and partnerships with honesty and courage.

Why do relationships so often go wrong?
Is it really possible to be honest with your partner?
What ever happened to romance?
How is sex transformed into love?
What's the connection between sex and spirituality?
The love between man and woman is at the heart of Barry Long's teachings. He is well known for his influential bestseller 'Making Love; Sexual Love the Divine Way'. This new book is the sequel.

by Kimberly Ann Johnson

Call of the Wild

From trauma educator and somatic guide Kimberly Ann Johnson comes a cutting-edge guide for tapping into the wisdom and resilience of the body to rewire the nervous system, heal from trauma, and live fully.

In an increasingly polarized world where trauma is often publicly renegotiated, our nervous systems are on high alert. From skyrocketing rates of depression and anxiety to physical illnesses such as autoimmune diseases and digestive disorders, many women today find themselves living out of alignment with their bodies.

Kimberly Johnson is a somatic practitioner, birth doula, and postpartum educator who specializes in helping women recover from all forms of trauma. In her work, she’s seen the same themes play out time and again. In a culture that prioritizes executive function and “mind over matter", many women are suffering from deeply unresolved pain that causes mental and physical stagnation and illness.

In Call of the Wild, Johnson offers an eye-opening look at this epidemic as well as an informative view of the human nervous system and how it responds to difficult events. From the “small t” traumas of getting ghosted, experiencing a fall-out with a close friend, or swerving to avoid a car accident to the “capital T” traumas of sexual assault, an upending natural disaster, or a life-threatening illness - Johnson explains how the nervous system both protects us from immediate harm and creates reverberations that ripple through a lifetime.

In this practical, empowering guide, Johnson shows readers how to metabolize these nervous system responses, allowing everyone to come home to their deepest, most intuitive and whole selves. Following her supportive advice, readers will learn how to move from wholeness, tapping into the innate wisdom of their senses, soothing frayed nerves and reconnecting with their “animal selves".

While we cannot cure the painful cultural rifts inflicting our society, there is a path forward - through our bodies.

With such a powerful sexual attraction between us, how is it that we make each other unhappy? Barry Long explains why sex corrupts love and how we cripple loving relationships.

What's the solution? In characteristically forthright manner, the author proposes a new way of romantic love and shows how it can be brought into our lives and partnerships with honesty and courage.

Why do relationships so often go wrong?
Is it really possible to be honest with your partner?
What ever happened to romance?
How is sex transformed into love?
What's the connection between sex and spirituality?
The love between man and woman is at the heart of Barry Long's teachings. He is well known for his influential bestseller 'Making Love; Sexual Love the Divine Way'. This new book is the sequel.

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