As Making Love teachers and parents, we, Jasmin and Max Muzio, have found Diana Richardson’s and other books invaluable for integrating conscious sexuality into daily life.
These practical guides help deepen connection and bring mindfulness to relationships, turning intimacy into a natural, enriching part of everyday routines. We believe they can transform your relationships as they have ours. Here are our top recommendations.


Diana Richardson, an acclaimed authority on human sexuality, began a personal enquiry into the union of sex and meditation (the essence of tantra) over twenty five years ago while living in India. Through these innocent steps and motivated by simple curiosity, she gained deep insights into the spiritual and generative implications of sex that lie beyond its reproductive aspect. She stresses that it is the how of sex, and not the what of sex, that determines the difference. With additional information we can begin to honor the innate sexual intelligence that exists in our bodies as a subtle electro-magnetic reality. On this fine and delicate level man and woman function as equal yet opposite forces that are highly complimentary. Embracing this polarity potential can elevate and transform sex into an empowering and spiritual act, an experience that creates and sustains love, peace and harmony. Her simple, down to earth and practical approach as presented in her books has created a wave of positive resonance and response from readers worldwide.

What happens when suddenly the wind changes and the loving connection between two partners is disrupted for hours or even days? Why is love associated with ups and downs? The answer is simple although not obvious - usually a wave of emotion which has roots in the past floods the atmosphere. The authors show in easy to follow steps how to recognise emotions, to leave them behind, and to create space for the expression of real feelings where love has a chance.

Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow by Marnia Robinson challenges conventional views on sex, showing how brain chemistry impacts love and lust. She offers strategies for deeper emotional connections to create more fulfilling, lasting relationships.

Nonviolent Communication by Marshall B. Rosenberg and Deepak Chopra explores how to replace harmful communication patterns with compassionate, empathetic dialogue. It teaches how to foster connection through conscious language, collaboration, and understanding. The approach helps increase choice, improve relationships, and promote mutual benefit in everyday interactions. With over 5 million copies sold worldwide, this guide is essential for cultivating nonviolent communication.

In Tantric Orgasm for Women, Diana Richardson shows how relaxation and feminine energy unlock deeper orgasms. She offers tantric exercises to balance male and female energies, enhance intimacy, and address common sexual challenges.

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Tantric Sex for Men by Diana and Michael Richardson challenges the performance-driven mindset of modern male sexuality, shifting focus from goal-oriented sex to a more fulfilling, stress-free experience. In a world where men face constant pressure to perform, this approach invites relaxation and deeper connection. Through over 25 years of tantric practice, the authors reveal how semen retention boosts vitality and extends intimacy, while deep, sustained penetration strengthens relationships. Practical techniques for foreplay, position sequences, and overcoming premature ejaculation guide men to a more mindful, healing, and passionate sexual experience. This book transforms sex into a meditative, rejuvenating celebration that nurtures both partners.
Tantric Sex for Men by Diana and Michael Richardson challenges the performance-driven mindset of modern male sexuality, shifting focus from goal-oriented sex to a more fulfilling, stress-free experience. In a world where men face constant pressure to perform, this approach invites relaxation and deeper connection. Through over 25 years of tantric practice, the authors reveal how semen retention boosts vitality and extends intimacy, while deep, sustained penetration strengthens relationships. Practical techniques for foreplay, position sequences, and overcoming premature ejaculation guide men to a more mindful, healing, and passionate sexual experience. This book transforms sex into a meditative, rejuvenating celebration that nurtures both partners.

Peter A. Levine's In an Unspoken Voice synthesizes his extensive experience in clinical practice, brain research, stress science, and observing animals to explain how trauma affects the body, brain, and psyche. The book presents the view that trauma is an injury resulting from fear, helplessness, and loss, rather than a disorder, and it can be healed by tapping into our natural ability to self-regulate intense emotions and arousal. Through a comprehensive theoretical framework and illustrative case studies, Levine combines insights from biology, neuroscience, and body-oriented psychotherapy to demonstrate that integrating instinct and rationality can lead to a more complete human experience.



In The Heart of Tantric Sex, Diana Richardson teaches how Tantra’s mindful, slow approach to lovemaking can deepen intimacy and lasting love. She offers practical advice for modern couples, encouraging a shift from goal-driven sex to a connection that nurtures spiritual growth and the sacred in relationships.

Cool Sex by Diana Richardson offers teens and young adults an alternative view of sex, focusing on relaxation and mindfulness instead of excitement, promoting deeper satisfaction and connection.

This tantric guide by Diana Richardson and Janet McGeever reveals the hidden gifts of menopause, showing how it opens a new phase of creative and spiritual energy. The authors explain how Tantra can help women embrace their body’s changes, let go of performance pressure in sex, and cultivate passion and pleasure. With practical tools, they offer insights on what to expect physically, emotionally, and spiritually during menopause, and how it can lead to deeper intimacy, self-awareness, and enhanced relationships. This book is a guide for women to reconnect with their body’s wisdom and embrace this transformative phase.

Barry Long’s groundbreaking book about the difference between love and sex. What are the real secrets of love-making? What mistakes does everyone make before learning the truth about love? What can men do to avoid sexual failure? What do women need to know before they can discover a real and fulfilling love? These revolutionary tantric teachings have inspired, challenged and profoundly changed the love-lives of many thousands of couples and are surely needed today more than ever.







